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DEATH TALK & DONUTS. SWEET.

Death & Donuts is a community for people who are curious about death. Through in-person and virtual events we’ll explore death-related topics with an open mind, building community one gooey bite at a time. Let’s talk about death before it talks about us. Amiright?

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HERE’S WHAT’S TO COME FROM DEATH & DONUTS:

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  • You guessed it. In-person talks with topic experts. Sign-up required. Donuts provided.

  • Virtual programming that’s open to all members. BYOD

  • Talks that allow for deeper discussion due to the number of participants. (6-8ppl, virtual or in-person)

  • Virtual and in-person book clubs covering a variety of death-related topics.

  • Meet up with other members to walk and talk about death stuff. Topics will vary by walk. Donut holes are on tap.

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BOOK CLUB

January 18th-February 28th

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Virtual

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Our virtual book club is low stress and at your own pace. Join us on the Fable app for chapter discussions, death talk, community and friendship! Free to join. All are welcome.

Our first book is Briefly Perfectly Human by Alua Arthur- a memoir that uses the author's experience as a death doula to explore how confronting mortality can lead to a more authentic and fulfilling life. The book blends personal stories, including her career change from lawyer to death doula, with case studies of her clients, offering wisdom on end-of-life planning, emotional preparation, and finding meaning in the face of death. It reframes death not as an end to be feared, but as a natural part of the human experience that can illuminate what truly matters in life.

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UPCOMING EVENTS

ALL EVENTS
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HI! I’M PERI. I’M GLAD YOU’RE HERE.

I started this community with the goal of giving people a safe space to explore topics around death and dying. Death is not a topic that everyone is comfortable talking about. But you know what makes it a little easier? Donuts

Death & Donuts is a come as-you-are, judgement-free zone where curiosity, kindness and respect always take center stage. My hope is that this community takes on a life of its own – that it becomes a place where friendships are created and new perspectives emerge.

WHEN I’M NOT ORGANIZING DEATH & DONUTS, I’M ALSO THE FOUNDER OF THE MOSTLY DEATH STUFF PODCAST.

I’m a hospice volunteer and certified death doula.

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MEMBER DUES

PAY YOUR DUES BECAUSE, KARMA.

Dues are $20 per calendar year and are on the honor system. Dues help offset costs associated with helping the community stay active such as web updates, social media design and printing fees.

$20.00

You can also pay your dues via Venmo.

Venmo: @deathanddonuts

We do not accept cash for dues.

INCOMING MERCH

YOU KNOW WHAT YOU NEED? MORE STUFF!

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COMING SOON!

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SAY HEY

Have a question, idea or just want to share your favorite donut flavor?